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Resources for Family Change

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Helping your child move between homes

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Tips for grandparents and other family

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Answering difficult questions from children

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Absent parent

Author: Skylight Trust

When a parent is absent from a child or young person’s life, they are likely to experience a range of thoughts and feelings about the situation.​ They are lots of reasons why a parent may be...

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Adjusting to two homes

Author: Skylight Trust

Adjusting to two homes is difficult for everyone, and making it work takes time, patience and understanding.​ Following a family breakdown and when parents have shared care arrangements, it ...

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Adjusting to two homes

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Blended Families​​

Author: Skylight Trust

A blended family is where one or both of the new partners have children from a previous relationship, and have combined to form another family unit.​ Every day it is more common to see this ...

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New step families

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Talking to kids about blended families

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Grandparents raising grandchildren

Author: Skylight Trust

For a number of reasons, grandparents may become the primary caregivers for their grandchildren, either for short periods or permanently. For most grandparents, raising grandchildren comes a...

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Grandparents as parents

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Grandparents Raising Grandchildren

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Fostering

Author: Skylight Trust

All children deserve to be safe and nurtured. "Foster" means to take care of and to help to grow and develop. What is a Foster Family?  A family that takes a child into their home and takes...

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Estrangement

Author: Skylight Trust

Estrangement can be defined as the breakdown of a supportive relationship, between whānau members and other close relationships. Family ties and a sense of belonging are an essential part o...

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Top ten points to consider before reconciling

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Parent in Prison

Author: Skylight Trust

Being separated from a loved one for long periods of time, is difficult - being in prison, or having a parent in prison adds another level of complexity.​ You may feel anger, grief, guilt, s...

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Parent in jail

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New Baby

Author: Skylight Trust

Bringing a new baby in to the family home can be a time of great joy and great change.​ Excitement is in the air, a new baby for you, a new sibling for your child. When and how to t...

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6 top tips to prepare your child

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How can I prepare my child ahead of time for their new baby sibling

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