Abuse and Violence

— Skylight Trust

Violence is the use of physical harm, or the threat of harm. When this violence causes fear in another person, it becomes an abusive action. ​

Abuse can happen to you once, or many times.

Abuse itself, takes many forms:

  • physical Abuse: Intentionally causing pain or damage to the body
  • verbal Abuse: Use of words to elicit negative emotions
  • sexual Abuse: Unwanted sexual contact by force or emotional pressure, rape
  • neglect: Not providing the necessities of life such as food or safety
  • psychological Abuse: Use of words or actions to intentionally undermine an individual’s self-worth or cause fear
  • witnessing Abuse: Can have similar effects on our emotional state.

Symptoms that may present, following abuse:

  • changes to our thoughts and feelings: Fear of specific persons or situations, low self-esteem and feelings of worthlessness
  • behavioural symptoms: Avoidance, withdrawal, self-medication with drugs or alcohol, cringing or flinching if touched unexpectedly, regressing emotionally, anger, self harm
  • physical symptoms: Tension, headaches, stomach upsets, bed-wetting, bruises and other physical injuries.

For further information see attachments and other topics under this heading.

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